Wedding days are a whirlwind of excitement! From the 'getting ready' buzz to the dance floor celebrations, it's easy to focus on the newlyweds, the bridal party, and those "big moment" photos. But as a photographer, I've come to realize that some of the most precious and heartwarming images lie elsewhere.
Capturing a Legacy of Love
Look around the room. Your grandparents, aunts and uncles, those family members who've shaped your journey – they embody more than just guests. Their faces tell a story of love, support, and the joy they have witnessing your special day. Don't let those moments slip by!
The Money Shots You May Not Expect
Ceremony Candids: Grandparents wiping away tears of joy, a shared smile between an elderly couple, the pride etched on a parent's face. These are pure, unfiltered emotions.
Reception Interactions: A dance with a grandparent, laughter during a toast, a warm hug between your partner and an elder they've come to love.
Quiet Moments: Sometimes the best photos are those gentle moments between family members – hands held, whispers shared.
Why These Matter
These photos aren't about fancy poses or perfect lighting. They're about legacy. They capture:
Generational Love: The bond between generations shines through in these images, becoming part of your family history
Timeless Emotion: The unfiltered joy or quiet contemplation on these faces is more beautiful than any staged setup.
Cherished Memories: These photos may become even more precious in the years to come, reminding you of the love and support felt that day.
Tips for Photographers and Couples:
Be Observant: Look for interactions beyond the obvious. Be attuned to subtle moments of connection.
Candids are KEY: Some of the best shots are when subjects are fully absorbed in the moment.
DON’T Force it: most of the time people do not know what to do when they are knowingly infront of a camera. Most people absolutely hate it, so be subtle and if you miss a moment, take note of it and anticipate the next one
Make a List: I despise shot lists (sometimes) and I’m not trying to suggest adding any more lists to the wedding day but this is worth a conversation and maybe a small mental list - talk to the couple beforehand about any special relationships. This helps you prioritize those shots.
Whether you're a photographer or a couple planning your big day, don't overlook the older generation. Their smiles, their tears, and the love they radiate are some of your wedding's most valuable and heartwarming treasures.